The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known struggle, known loss,

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known struggle, known loss,

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation sensitivity and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen~ Elizabeth Kubler Ross~”

This statement is a statement of self deception and a false view of reality and it comes from the ego.

So let us look at why this statement is self deception and a false view of reality and why it is ego?

First of all, this statement can only exist because a capitalistic system exists; we all know what capitalism is and how it works Right? 

Here is a quick update on the reality of it, straight forward. 

Capitalism is basically a system that allows people to abuse each other for their own gain and not just people but also the resources here on earth, and in the end money, people call this first comes first serve, the capitalistic system that we all accept and allow to exist is designed to abuse, to create haves and have not’s, to create struggling and to create loss. This is what we all have accepted to be normal and how it works, while really all we have to do is change the system.

Thus now we get back to the quote from above. 

If you read the quote quickly again...... then you will see that the people that is being referred to as being the most beautiful and all the other stuff  has known struggle and loss and have found their way out of dept, this is self deception because the being now places him/her self above the rest. Placing themselves as a false stamen that anyone can do this if they want – obvious ego..

While all that happened was the being had a lucky break, while million go through the exact same loss and struggle, this one made it out of the hole.

If you look at capitalism, there isn’t and can never be enough work for everyone to get out of the shit, this is common sense and anyone should see this. So it’s all a lie.  

This is deception because the being will now use this luck that they had to give the other millions that is still remaining in the same positions false hope, keeping them enslaved to their life situations and that they might one day also get out. Because of the way the being is presenting themselves now, as being as higher being and more, instead of telling the truth and that they were lucky and that it is a fucked up system and its abusive etc. 

The statement is ego, because the being that came out of the struggle and out of the loss and depths, will use the struggling and losses as experiences that they use to validate the reasons for why they have what they have now, such as money or a better life, while billions are still in the same shitty positions. 

So it becomes a point of like bragging about it, look what I had to go through to get what I have now, look what I had to get out of to have what I have now.

And this is really giving a false view of reality to the being self and to all of those that witnessed.

Slumdogmillionair (a Movie) is a perfect example..

The being that came out of the struggle and depths and losses will now have a view on reality that makes the being believe that if you struggle enough, if you lose enough and if you fall deep enough and you get out, you will have a better life, this causes the acceptance and allowance of abuse and thus validates struggling and loss and no one stands up but keep on struggling.  

All the while it is all got to do with luck (pre- programming), and money – nothing personally about the being self. 

So the only understanding and sensitivity these being have about life is that they were fucking lucky and that they have to really be careful, for what they do and say and how they live because they can lose it at any moment and end back in the struggling and depths and losses. 

So it is best that we look at the reality of all as one, because that is your math, if the world looks fucked (when you look at the whole picture) then it is fucked – do not create any delusions about it, stay real and do something about it. 

Be careful for these beautiful people, they will present something and you will deceive yourself if you believe what you want to see.

We need real people, does not matter what you went through or did not, a world in equality will come forth through common sense, self forgiveness and self honesty.

Agreement and secret Competition

I have being within an agreement for about 2 years and 9 months plus minus, and throughout that time I have faced myself extensively with in all corners of myself lol, and still after all that time I have these little points of competition that I participate with in towards my Partner, I keep it secret and I keep it safe and I make sure my partner doesn’t know about it because then I will have to face how silly it is and completely useless with no point of relevance really.....

The point that I am competing with in is seeing how many people I can get to follow me on the ‘NetworkedBlogs’ on Facebook and that who gets the most followers and whose writings (blogs) gets the most views. (to achieve what? Is my question what do I secretly want to achieve?)It’s all dishonest and deceptive bullshit.

So every day I go on Facebook and I check my NetworkedBlogs site out and I see how many followers I have and then I will check everyone’s status on how many followers everyone has, but here is the silly point, I am okay with it if anyone else has more followers than me except if it is my partner’s then I react and want to see how far ahead she actually is and in what possible ways I can try and get ahead of her, this keeps me occupied for at least 45min (including rating everyone’s blogs and stuff)

But I see how I actually feel bad once I have surpassed her with in having the most followers and that I now feel like I have left her behind somewhere and all bunch of crap, like I did something to her that she is Yet not aware of, (polarities playing out)

Competition has played a big role with in my life as a way of how our South African culture enjoys themselves through many sports, as I did almost all the types of sport there was in school and how that in itself already gave your life meaning a whole new level of value with in other people’s eyes, as sport was the one thing here that if you could do sport you were really awesome and you were like a mini god. I was always the mini god in doing the most activities rather than being good at only one and being the best at that one.

So with in my agreement I see that I also with in all points just like in school with sport try and win and compete, even though I may not be the best but still I like to have it all behind me as to be able to say, look what I did and how much I did, but never at look what I have achieved. (a pattern)

Competitions is a very slight thing that takes place in the secret mind all the time, you will smile and pretend to be someone you are not in front of people and when it comes down to it you will pull out the big guns that you were building in the basement(mind) to blow their heads of just to have a chance at winning, because if you win it is like being on drugs, everyone loves you and you are suddenly valid and valuable and worth something and you feel like you can move mountains (EGO) and of course you can make your creators proud (mommy and daddy).

I will apply all the SF on this point later when I have the appropriate time and all.